Follow up: to love or not to love

After reading other people's feelings on love I realized that it is not a question of wether or not to love, but if you need to fall in love. What I mean by that is everyone has the opportunity to fall in love but not everbody needs it. There are plenty of people ou there that are not in love but still live life I the fullest and enjoy every second of it. This also supports my original statement that you shouldn't fall in love. If you are happy and contempt with your life then why would you want to risk your happiness on something that isn't garuntee'd to last?